Sunday, January 11, 2015

All About Me

The past several years have been filled with lots of change in my life. Five years ago I decided to return to school to teach Elementary, preferably 5th or 6th grade, and as I started taking classes realized that was not what I really wanted to do. When I started school I had four children and my life was going along pretty good except I felt there was something I was missing. I felt like school would give me the direction I thought I was lacking. I soon found out there was more for our family than just having me go back to school.

I had this plan that I would go to school for four years and then find a job teaching and then send some kids on missions and then whatever else might happen after that...that was a great plan, but there was more instore for me that I wasn't expecting.

Shortly before I would be getting my associates I realized that I wasn't that excited about teaching elementary and just wanted to teach math all day. I talked to a few people who suggested that I teach high school math. So I decided to start looking into that and finding out what it might take. I found out that I would need a teaching minor so I choose Psychology as my minor and talked to my advisor and worked out my schedule for the next four years.

Things were working out so nicely when we realized that our niece needed a new place to live and so we invited her to live with us. We  have two children that are 20 months apart and as it would be our niece is right exactly in the middle of them. So we started her going to high school with my daughter when she was a sophomore. The next year we had a senior, junior and sophomore in high school. We then had to fight her dad to keep her at our home which turned into a mess and him hating my husband and I. About 2 years after she moved in with us her dad committed suicide and we then realized why she needed to be living with us. It has been hard adding a teenager to the house, but we finally made it official this last year and adopted her.

So we now had five children and one of them was off to college and the other four were finishing up junior high and high school. My daughter, Chelsea, has wanted to serve a mission since she was 12. I always asked her what she would do if someone wanted to marry her. She would always say I'm going on a mission so they will just have to wait for me to come home. At that time the age of missionaries was 21 and my plan was to be graduated from college before we sent our missionaries. Then the exciting day came that girls could serve missions at 19. Chelsea has been out serving a mission for 7 months in Latvia. She is loving every minute of it and has been able to learn Latvian to communicate with those around her.

Now think back to the three teenagers who are ten months apart. It means that all three of them could serve missions at the same time. Not what we were expecting, but happy to have them serve if that was their choice. Our daughter, Tanya, has been called to the California, Irvine Spanish Speaking mission and leaves in March. Our son, Austin, is getting ready to submit his papers and can leave in June. So yep, I don't graduate until next spring and we will have three missionaries out serving. I am grateful everyday for the choices my children make because they are their choices not mine.

Remember the son that was in college...well he has added to our family as well. He was married a little over a year ago and three weeks ago they had a baby boy. Being an Oma has been the best in the world. My mom always told me that having grandchildren was better than kids. I didn't believe her, but I do now. It's the best and I'm sure I have the cutest grandbaby on the planet!! I love my daughter-in-law and think she is the best thing that ever happened to my son.


I do have one more child, Brayden, he is in 9th grade and loves to wrestle. Poor kid is skinny as can be and weighs 90 pounds. The lowest weight class in high school is 106 so he is learning a lot about being tough and finding ways to beat kids that are 15 pounds heavier than he is. It's fun to watch him.

My kids have mostly participated in soccer, which is my favorite sport to watch. We went to England this summer and stopped by the Chelsea stadium which happens to be Austin's favorite team. It was cool to see a professional soccer stadium. We have also attended dance recitals, piano recitals, wrestling meets and swimming and water polo events.

Last December my husband and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary. It has been an amazing adventure being married to him. There have been lots of up and downs, but we have been able to make it through all the rough patches. I couldn't ask for a better friend. He is always there for me.

Literacy is important in Math. If you don't understand how to read math statements it will be hard to solve those statements. Math is not just numbers, those numbers are sentences that tell you something. Literacy is more than reading and writing. It helps shape who we become as we explore the world around us. It is becoming a life-long learner and having a thirst for knowledge. Teaching in the high school will be a challenge that I look forward to, especially teaching math. Most students tell me they hate math and I just tell them they haven't had a teacher who made math fun for them. My goal is to make math fun.

4 comments:

  1. Hi Dera...what a beautiful grandbaby you have! Congratulations. James Barney, another person in our class, is also raising a niece with his family...you might want to look at his blog too. :)

    I think it's great that you have several teens in high school right now. One of the options for a self-selected project will be to interview one or more teens. It might be interesting to ask your kids about what kinds of vocabulary instruction they find to be effective in math, what kinds of assignments engaged them and what didn't, and so forth. I think that our own kids are perfect fodder for getting us thinking about what works and doesn't work in education. I wonder if your children have ever brought home some really innovative math assignments?

    Thanks for your first posting, and I look forward to reading more as the semester progresses!

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  2. Hi my name is Rebecca Wilkinson. Literacy is also important in teaching English and History. I have to admit I haven't really thought about what literacy is besides reading and writing until we had to answer the question. Literacy does involve more than just reading and writing, it also involves comprehension of the text. Literacy is very important in all subjects.

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  3. Hi Dera. I didn't have a chance to interact with many of the people at the distance sites in Math 5020 last semester so it was nice to get to know a little about you through this blog. I really appreciate your statement, "Math is not just numbers, those numbers are sentences that tell you something." I think Jim would emphatically agree with your statements you have made in this blog, and I do too.

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  4. Dera, I really enjoyed reading your blog post! You have such an interesting and wonderful life. I'm excited to see where it goes from here! -Molly Gorringe

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